Shining Bright For The Nine Years
Lisa Patrick
Ashland Beacon
It was a night full of glittery dresses, sparkling shoes, suits and ties at the Our Night to Shine Special Needs Prom at the Boyd County Fairground on Saturday night as the I Believe Foundation celebrated nine years of organizing this event for the special people in our community.
This year’s theme was “Under the Sea,” and it could be seen everywhere-mermaid tails in the tablescapes, cookies decorated like sea creatures and as small little beachscapes, a “treasure chest,” and a dessert table draped with a fishing net and covered with little seashells. But, the decorations didn’t shine as bright as the students attending the prom.
For many of them, this is the only prom that they are able to attend. The school proms just aren’t suitable for most of them. For the Our Night to Shine prom, attendees with special needs are paired with neurotypical “dates” who make sure that they have a great time. They also have neurotypical peers who hang out on the dance floor to keep the party going.
The kids have the best time. Any of them that have been before, look forward to it all year. The ones who are new usually have such an awesome time that they start asking their parents when they can go again on the very next day. Conversations about what to wear next year will happen on the way home. Becky Roar commented, “This was my granddaughter’s first dance, and she had an absolute blast!”
The Our Night to Shine put on by the I Believe Foundation differs from other special needs proms because they only allow high school-aged students to attend. They start at age 14 and will go up to age 21 as most special needs students are allowed to stay in school until the age of 21. After that, the ones that age out usually come back as volunteers to help with any tasks assigned to them so they can help others have the great time that they had when they attended the prom.
The “dates” are expected to go above and beyond for the person that they are assigned to, so they are usually hand-picked. Not only do they escort their date into the prom, but, sometimes, they are also responsible for feeding them, cleaning them up before dancing, and then sticking around for the entire evening to dance with them. For Raeden Webb, dancing means crouching on the floor and bouncing to the music. Her date, Ty Plummer, spent the entire evening sitting on the floor beside her and dancing when she danced. He was also her date last year but, this year, he is attending college in Florida. He contacted her mother and flew in the morning of the prom just to escort her to her dance and flew back out on Sunday to go back to school.
The I Believe Foundation wants to thank all of the people and businesses that donated to give them the ability to create this event this year. Board member Cindy Kennard said, “When you snorkel, you get to observe the beauty under the sea. Last night, we witnessed the loveliness of some of God’s greatest creations as they sparkled and shined. Their dancing, laughing, and smiling brought our ‘Under the Sea’ them alive. We were truly blessed to be a witness to our ninth prom!”
Follow the I Believe Foundation on Facebook for upcoming events. The next planned event is for Sunday, August 11. They are planning a back-to-school family day at the KOA campground in Argillite from 1p.m. to 5 p.m. There will be more details to follow on their Facebook page, and there will also be information sent out to all of the local schools before they are released for the summer.