You Are a Survivor!

 You Are a Survivor!

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

 You Are a Survivor

“You were given this life because you were strong enough to live it”. 

-Ain Eineziz

   We all possess a strength that is often not revealed until we are at our most vulnerable moments in life. Those moments where it feels as if the world is caving in around us and we simply can’t see a way out. It is in such a time as this that many have thoughts of giving up, but that’s when you need to remember that fighting takes far more strength than giving up.

   It’s easy to give up and let the unfortunate and often unexpected events of life drag you down into the bottomless pits of darkness.  This is when you must come to the realization that your only option is to become a survivor!

   A survivor is someone that has been pushed to the edge and looked over into the bottomless abyss of despair and declared that “today is simply not the day that I will allow myself to venture into this darkness! Today is not the day that I will give up! But rather that today is the day that I will collect all my sorrow… all my fears… all my strength… and fight!”

   Because fighting is the only thing that makes sense. “Fighting is the only thing that you have left to do. Fight for yourself, your family, your friends, and fight for those that have lost their lives to this horrible disease that may have not had a chance to fight for themselves.  A diagnosis of breast cancer can be one of the most terrifying moments in a person’s life and often they are left feeling that they are in that fight alone. Many people may find themselves embarrassed or ashamed to share their diagnosis with others because they fear they may be looked upon as weak or broken.

   You my friend are not weak nor broken. YOU are a survivor! You have the heart of a warrior and strength of a bear. You need only to realize it and embrace it. Share your diagnosis with the world so that others may see your impeccable strength and inspiring courage which might be exactly what the next person needs to find their own strength to get through this difficult journey. 

   Having the courage to fight doesn’t mean that every day will be easy or great, but it does mean that every day you can lay your head down at night and rest easy knowing that you faced the day with every ounce of strength that you had and that my friend takes real courage.

   “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says… I will try again tomorrow.” – Mary Anne Radmacher.

Time to Think Pink with Shield of Faith

Time to Think Pink with Shield of Faith

Gwen Akers

The Ashland Beacon

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   It is time to “Think Pink” with Shield of Faith Gift and Boutique as they prepare for their second “Think Pink” after hours shopping event in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness month. The event is run by owner Crissy Mayhan and is sure to be a fantastic experience for both awareness and community.

   Shield of Faith Gift and Boutique has been a staple business in Ashland for many years, as the business was originally owned by Mayhan’s mom, before being passed down to Crissy in 2021. The boutique started when Mayhan was five-years-old and was based out of their garage. Crissy Mayhan has been working at the business since she was in high school. They were able to host their first “Think Pink” event in 2019 before the pandemic, and now they are ready to resume the tradition. This year’s event is planned for October 21 from 6 to 8 p.m.

 

   In 2019, the event was sponsored by Vera Bradley, and was a massive hit with both new and returning shoppers. This year’s event is in the works and they are currently collecting donations for local breast cancer awareness charities. The event is centered around connection and support – two pillars of helping those that have breast cancer and those that are affected by it. Crissy Mayhan herself lost her aunt to breast cancer, and ever since she has wanted to help those in the community who might be going through the same things.

   “It’s just so nice to be able to even talk to some of our customers and hear some of their experiences and just in hopes of one day finding, you know, hopefully they can find a cure for all,” expressed Mayhan.

   Gift bags and goodies will be available for survivors and those going through breast cancer, as well as sales and discounts during the event throughout the store for the public.

   “We just want people to come out and have a good time,” commented Mayhan.

   Missy McCalvin is a longtime customer of Shield of Faith, who cannot wait to be a part of the Think Pink event this year. Her mom is a stage four ovarian cancer survivor, and both love the store and the event.

   “Well, I have had several great aunts that have survived breast cancer,” said McCalvin. “It’s important awareness, and something my mom and I take very seriously.”

   McCalvin began shopping at Shield of Faith when she became her church’s Youth Director. The store was a wonderful resource for her and her church. McCalvin attended the event in 2019 and loves the support and fellowship of the event.

   Think Pink is hopefully going to be an annual event according to Mayhan and is certainly going to be an event you don’t want to miss.

   Fellowship, community, and awareness are the pillars of Shield of Faith—as it continues to be a staple business of Ashland. Those interested in the event should be sure to check it out on October 21 from 6 to 8 p.m., as it is sure to allow the community to Think Pink!

A Small Town School…Memories for a Lifetime

A Small Town School…Memories for a Lifetime

Grace Phillips

Ashland Beacon

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During the school year, you can drive by Catlettsburg Elementary and hear the laughter and chatter of children on the playground.  This is now, but that wasn’t the case 50 years ago.  The halls of the school were filled with high school students, grades 9-12, with teachers trying to prepare them for their future. 

The school’s enrollment was declining each year and talks were being held between the Boyd County School Board and the Catlettsburg School Board about merging the two districts.  Ruth Chaney was a member of the 1973 graduating class with only 47 members.  Their class recently held their 50th reunion over the Labor Day weekend.  She remembered hearing about the possible plans for the future of the schools because her father was very involved in the community.  “I think everyone knew it was something that had to happen, but no one wanted to give up that small-town feel.  They agreed it would be for the best, and of course, in the end, it was.” 

 

With the decision made, it was decided that the class of 1974 would be the last class to graduate from Catlettsburg High School.  According to Chaney, the merger didn’t really affect their senior year, “Growing up in a small community, going to a small high school has its benefits.  You know everyone, and it’s like a family, but you don’t get the opportunities that you do in a larger school.”

It was a wonderful reunion of laughter and memories.  For Chaney, her time in the band was the highlight of her high school years.  “I was in the band for eight years.  I think about all the trips we were able to take, playing for the football games...I cherish those years.”

Teresa Childers was another member of the Class of 1973.  “My time there was absolutely wonderful.  Everyone knew each other and their families.”   She went on to say there wasn’t even a school bus until their senior year nor was there a cafeteria in the school for many years. “Everyone walked to school…a few people had cars as we got older but not many…it was a great place to grow up.  For lunch, we either brought our lunch or walked home.”  

Theresa Jackson still had a copy of one of their school newspapers.  One of the big changes that year was a new dress code.  It allowed girls to wear pants to school for the first time.   Childers also commented on the dress code for boys and sideburns. “They couldn’t be flared, too wide or too long.  They checked them as they came in the door, and if they weren’t right, they would send them home to get those sideburns off.”

Childers said it was very difficult for those who actually had to move to Boyd County when the merger was complete because Catlettsburg and the small school were all they had ever known.  

Susan Hunt was a member of the 1974 Catlettsburg High graduating class…the final class that would ever graduate from the school.  “All the high school students knew at the beginning of the school year that this would be the last year for CHS.  Naturally, my classmates and I were sad knowing we were the last graduating class…but I think it was more difficult on the other classes as they would have to transition to a new high school.  We were all loyal to CHS, but I think we knew the merger would allow students more opportunities.”  Hunt reflected back on her graduation, “Graduation was especially hard for me and my classmates as we knew it was not only the end of our high school experience, but it was also the end of our school.”

Every person in this article was asked if there was one teacher who stood out in his/her memory.  After 50 years, the answer from each one was the very same person…Robin Vanover.   Donna Maynard, another member of the Class of 1973, recalled, “She was a very young teacher; we just loved her…she was like a big sister. Our freshman year, she was assigned to be our homeroom teacher.”  One interesting fact that Maynard shared is there was a girl’s homeroom and a boy’s homeroom. When speaking of Mrs. Vanover, Chaney said, “She got to know us; she knew our families. Not only was she an excellent English teacher, she cared about her students.  Whatever you were going through at home, you knew you could depend on her to be a source of support for you.”

Maynard continued, “The thing I remember most about CHS is the small group of us…we didn’t know anything else.  I think the closeness then and growing up in a small town helped us appreciate the way we were raised.  Many of us are multigenerational here…we have family here…we have roots from long ago…our parents went to the same high school…it was called Thomas R Brown at one time…there is a lot of tradition here.”

Each year, during the Labor Day weekend in Catlettsburg, there is a reunion for all classes that attended CHS and Thomas R Brown High School.  This year there were approximately 180 who attended this reunion with class members from the 50’s and beyond.   Maynard commented, “They honored the oldest grad who attended this year.  Her name was Ann Cossett, and she was from the class of 1952.   This reunion is a lot of fun…there is a roll call of years, and whether you are there alone, representing your class or with other classmates, it is so good to see everyone.”  

Maynard served on the planning committee for the 50th reunion of the class of 1973; however, she also participated in committee meetings for this reunion.  “I feel that it is time for the classes from the 70s to get involved and learn how they plan this reunion and keep it going.  This is a very good thing. Each year, you start realizing how important this tradition is—that it continues.”   

Even though nearly five decades have passed since the last graduating class walked across the stage at Catlettsburg High School, the memories will live on for many generations to come.    

The Ashland Alliance to Hold Biggest Social Gathering in Northeast Kentucky

The Ashland Alliance to Hold Biggest Social Gathering in Northeast Kentucky

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

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          Get ready… get set… it’s time for the Ashland Alliance Annual Meeting. This will mark the Ashland Alliance’s 25th year for this annual event. When we hear the word “meeting,” we typically tend to think of something that is boring and time-consuming. However, this isn’t the case with the Ashland Alliance’s Annual Meeting. In fact, Scott Martin, Director of Operations of the Ashland Alliance, describes the annual meeting as, “Northeast Kentucky’s biggest business social gathering.” Martin also shared that this event is open to the entire community. “You don’t have to be a member of the Ashland Alliance to attend the Annual Meeting,” Martin explained.

 

At the Ashland Alliance Annual Meeting 2023, you'll have the opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals who share a passion for business growth and community development. Listen to leaders from the Commonwealth, business, and industry experts, and gain valuable insights about growth happening right here in our region.

          This epic social gathering brings together business leaders, professionals, and community members from across the region. Each year, the Ashland Alliance tries to hold its annual meeting around a big event such as a grand opening. This year’s annual meeting has been planned around two of the most highly anticipated grand openings that this area has had in quite some time. “We will be celebrating the grand opening of both Sandy’s Racing and Gaming and Tap That Sports” shared Tim Gibbs, President and CEO of the Ashland Alliance. Tap That Sports opened its doors to the public just a few short weeks ago.

           “From the moment the gaming center and racetrack were announced, we have watched the construction, the lines at the job fairs, and counted down the days to the highly anticipated opening of Sandy's Racing & Gaming. Then, to add to the fun, just step next door for a great selection of virtual sports and a wall full of taps, and you have Tap That Sports. Simply stated, this is a fantastic opportunity to make The Ashland Alliance's 25th Annual Meeting unforgettable. You know Boyd County has a lot to be proud of, and this is just a way to be able to celebrate that,” remarked Gibbs.

          The event will take place at Sandy’s Gaming and Tap That Sports, which is located at 10699 U.S. 60 right beside Camp Landing on October 26, 2023, from 6:00-9:00 p.m.  The event will feature heavy hors d'oeuvres, an open bar, and access to 30 taps: 20 beer and cider, six cocktails, and four wines! Gibbs commented, “The speaker list is under development, but it promises to be a great night to celebrate business and quality of life in all of Northeast Kentucky.”

          Tickets are on sale now: $75 for Ashland Alliance members or $95 for nonmembers. “Our guests will have their own entrance to the facility, more details for the evening's events will be forthcoming! You must be 21, and you must have your ID with you when you enter. To be a partner with the event, there are still some sponsorship opportunities available! If you have any questions, feel free to contact our office at 606.324.5111 or www.ashlandalliance.com,” explained the Ashland Alliance.

          Don't miss out on this incredible event! Mark your calendars, and get ready to have fun and be inspired at the Ashland Alliance Annual Meeting 2023 at Sandy's Racing & Gaming and Tap That Sports.

A Fight Worth Walking For Alzheimer’s Association Walk to Be Held at Central Park

A Fight Worth Walking For

Alzheimer’s Association Walk to Be Held at Central Park

Sasha Bush

The Ashland Beacon

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            Alzheimer’s disease is the most common type of dementia. Being a progressive disease, it begins with mild memory loss and can eventually lead to one’s loss of the ability to carry on a conversation. Alzheimer’s disease accounts for 60-80% of dementia cases. A common misconception about this brutal disease is that it is a normal part of aging. While it is true that the majority of people with Alzheimer’s disease are in the age group of 65 or older, the reality is that Alzheimer’s disease doesn’t discriminate and can affect anyone at any age. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, it is estimated that more than six million Americans of all ages have some form of Alzheimer’s.

 

“Alzheimer's is the sixth leading cause of death with no cure.  Currently, 75,000 Kentuckians are living with Alzheimer's and their 150,000 unpaid caregivers,” explained Jessica Munoz, Walk Manager for the Greater Kentucky and Southern Indiana Chapter of ALZ.  “I help coordinate with our volunteer committee to plan the walk, coach our team captains, recruit new teams to join the fight against Alzheimer's, and work with our local community partners who support our mission,” noted Munoz.

Munoz continued, “The Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's is the world's largest fundraiser for Alzheimer's care, support, and research. This inspiring event calls on participants of all ages and abilities to join the fight against the disease.  The Ashland Walk will be held on Sunday, October 22 at Central Park starting at 1:30 p.m. with the opening ceremony at 2:15 p.m. followed by the walk.  It's a great way to come out, support our mission, and see so many other families and companies in your area that are also affected by this disease and in this fight with you.”

If you are interested in getting involved with this walk, you can register and start a team at act.alz.org/ashlandky. “Share your story to invite others to donate, and join your team to help raise awareness and funds.  No fundraiser or effort is too small- post on social media or host a chili cookoff. It's also a great way to get employees involved!  The more action we can inspire, the more awareness we can bring.  Then of course, join us on Walk Day for a fun event! We welcome teams of family, friends, and corporate teams as well! There is no minimum number of people to a team and no fundraising minimums.  We encourage all who have a connection or simply want to support our vision of a world without Alzheimer's!” Munoz stated.

Events such as these are critical to help raise funds and awareness for Alzheimer’s disease. Munoz explained, “Every dollar you raise benefits those affected by Alzheimer's disease in your community. The Alzheimer's Association is a global organization working to advance care, support, and research across the world. From face-to-face support to online education programs and promising worldwide research initiatives, the money you raise makes a difference in the lives of those facing Alzheimer's.”

The Greater Kentucky and Southern Indiana chapter offers local support to those living with dementia and their families through educational programs, support groups, and our free 24/7 hotline to help with crisis and care consultations. The Alzheimer's Association is also the largest nonprofit funder for Alzheimer’s research and hopes to find a cure.